Thursday, September 21, 2017

Art of parenting, interpreting child's behaviour

*Tirukkural  by Tiruvalluvar (a Tamil  poet/writer) was written more than 5,000 yrs ago. It’s one of the ancient science on Human Behaviour, which has not changed in spite of modern education  & technology!*

*SOME GOLDEN THOUGHTS OF THIRUKKURAL:*

1. *If your child lies to you often, it is because you over-react too harshly to their inappropriate behaviour.*

2. *If your child is not taught to confide in you about their mistakes, you’ve lost them.*

3. *If your child had poor self-esteem, it is because you advice them more than you encourage them.*

4. *If your child does not stand up for themselves, it is because from a young age you have disciplined them regularly in public.*

5. *If your child takes things that do not belong to them, it is because when you buy them things, you don’t let them chose what they want.*

6. *If your child is cowardly, it is because you help them too quickly.*

7. *If your child does not respect other people’s feelings, it is because instead of speaking to your child, you order & command them.*
 
8. *If your child is too quick to anger, it is because you give too much attention to misbehaviour & you give little attention to good behaviour.*

9. *If your child is excessively jealous, it is because you only congratulate them when they successfully complete something & not when they improve at something even if they don’t successfully complete it*

10. *If your child intentionally disturbs you, it is because you are not physically affectionate enough.*

11. *If your child is openly defiant, it is because you openly threaten to do something but don’t follow through.*

12. *If your child is secretive, it is because they don’t trust that you won’t blow things out of proportion.*

13. *If your child talks back to you, it is because they watch you do it to others & think its normal behaviour.*

14. *If your child doesn’t listen to you but listens to others, it is because you are too quick to jump to conclusions*

15. *If your child rebels it is because they know you care more about what others think than what is right*


Saturday, August 5, 2017

Adventure in Relations: Signature Workshop@Chandigarh, 9th September

Adventure in Relations : to serve lovingly and live happily

Is there a connection between: Being Rich, Prosperous and .... Happy Relations ?

Chandigarh, Saturday, 9th September, Hotel James, Sector-17

A unique blended/adventure activity workshop to achieve more; take bonding to next higher level by leveraging gender strengths for young workforce, couple relations and family owned businesses. Over 10 million participants have benefitted over a period of 20 year by attending this workshop.
We will learn following and benefit by attending this Workshop?
  1. Do you think our earlier generations were happier, they knew some ancient secrets?
  2. Would you like to nurture relations to overcome fear of managing risk and uncertainties of life?
  3. Would you like to live happy, grow & progress natural intelligent way, the way God has destined?
  4. How men think, how women think
  5. Differences in interpreting, assimilating and how we give meaning to information.Same words, different meanings by opposite gender
  6. Working with opposite gender at home and at workplace
  7. How to gain support and earn respect from opposite gender
  8. How to capture and secure opposite gender’s attention/respect
  9. Appreciate gender differences and leverage gender strengths
  10. Differences in how they get happy, different happiness triggers
  11. Different shopping behaviour
  12. Navigate through relationship issues
  13. Coping with failures and with loss of loved ones
  14. Joy of giving, importance and benefits of being spiritual
Key Takeaways
After attending this program, participants will be able to:
For Men
  1. How women think, decide, interpret and assimilate our communication and actions
  2. How to deal with tough lady boss
  3. How to convince, communicate persuasively with women and make yourself understood
  4. Importance of humour in relations, especially tough situations
  5. Relation between father and daughter, what we learn from daughter
  6. How to choose your spouse, your life partner
  7. Planning to raise a family and welcoming the new one
  8. Planning for child’s wedding and welcoming daughter-in-law, son-in-law
  9. Spirituality and relationship management
  10. Feel happy and and responsible to be a man
For Women
  1. Managing relations with (family members of) in-laws
  2. Give space to other person in relations
  3. How to get what you want by creating win-win situations
  4. Relation between mother and son, what we learn from son
  5. Listen without prejudice to appreciate and understand situations
  6. Enhanced patience and perseverance
  7. Feel proud and happy to be a nurturer, to be a woman
Videos: Godrej, HDFC Bank, Baba Global, Panasonic, Tata AIA

Participant Profile:

Matured audience; openness & willing to learn, experiment with new ideas

Workshop; Conceptualized and Created by Prabhjot Singh Sood