Wednesday, May 11, 2016

True incident: How husband can identify, spouse harassment by another woman at workplace

Caution: may be offensive, however this is true incident

During lunch, colleague mentioned about silly mistakes by his spouse, financial implications and stress there-off. He was concerned about her increased frequency of mistake in counting cash and she being branded careless by others.

I was curious to learn more about his spouse;
  1. She is working at leading MNC bank at front office cash collection seat
  2. Her reporting manager is a woman, same person since last 1 year
  3. She is 4 month pregnant
  4. She had a miscarriage year ago
  5. They are desperate for a child after 4 year of marriage
  6. His parents & spouse does not get along too well
I suggested him to leave office early & go along with his spouse to a park/movie, I also indicated that I suspect something strange at her workplace and I would be keen to learn more about her woman reporting manager. He has to only encourage his spouse to speak and listen, listen, listen about;
  1. Her family
  2. Her relations with her husband
  3. How many kids she has
  4. Whatever information he can get
He revealed he never ever did this, his spouse cried after he listened to her & he hugged her He also felt bad for not listening & giving her attention. 

After I heard all about his spouse manager, I asked him to go on leave for next 3 days & get his spouse transferred to some other location, preferably nearer to his home & new reporting manager should be parent; it's mandatory if he has to ensure safe motherhood. They did it & she became happy mother of a healthy child in due course of time, Now they have two kids.

What was wrong at her first workplace... Caution this may be offensive, however true
  1. Earlier manager, a woman was childless after more than 8 year of marriage
  2. She was having affair with another man
  3. Her Husband also had a affair with another woman
  4. They used to maintain flashy lifestyle, expensive cars, clubbing..etc
  5. Worst, She used to taunt another women for they, expressing their feminine side
  6. She never had lunch with team & if she smiled, it was plastic/artificial one
  7. She used to give inappropriate comments about his expecting spouse morning sickness & she spending excessive time in washroom. She used to make her feel guilty... always.
God Bless everyone !!