Tuesday, August 25, 2015

We got to learn the difference; allowing woman to remain woman V/S treating her equally at par-with/as-same-as man

O Men! Only 2 lines: How & Why God has created women. Sabhya Samaj talk at MNC (Punjab team)

How: God has created women pure; with XX chromosome
Why: God has created women to nurture (Kudrat = Kaur, it means princess and all Sikh women add this as prefix)

Client: Leading Indian MNC, Behavioural workshop at Punjab for approximate 400 participants spread over 10 days.

My Questions to male only audience:
  1. Men have XY chromosome &  women XX, what does this mean?
  2. Why should we think & go against the will of god by not honouring the way he has created women?
  3. Is it correct to nurture thoughts of preference for male only child?
  4. How we can make our home and work-place welcoming & accommodating for women?
  5. Is single woman, walking alone down street; responsibility or opportunity?
  6. We give unlimited love and affection to our daughter, whatsoever tantrums she does, why cant we give unlimited love & affection to our spouse?
  7. Why do we forget, spouse was also daughter of someone?
  8. What 4 most important role a man has to play for spouse?

 

Sunday, August 23, 2015

Earlier when everything used to fail, I used to pray; O God ! give me inner strength. Now before I start doing anything, I pray; O God ! give me inner strength

Earlier when everything used to fail, I used to pray; O God ! give me inner strength. Now before I start doing anything, I pray; O God ! give me inner strength, so that I add value & help others. Thank you for everything, I am only a medium to spread your message, help people live common sense, live intelligent

Saturday, August 22, 2015

Next generation biggest challenge, (specially nuclear & ultra rich staying at metro cities). Unable to become parent & cherish the institution of marriage

Next generation biggest challenge, (specially nuclear & ultra rich staying at metro cities). Unable to become parent & cherish the institution of marriage.... Falling sperm count & disturbed biological cycle. Let's Live Natural, Live Intelligent

O Man ! does love mean; unconditional abeyance of our wish list by woman we love and & perhaps our kids..

O Man ! does love mean; unconditional abeyance of our wish list by woman we love and & perhaps our kids..

Thursday, August 20, 2015

Why we do, what we are doing ?....Let's make this planet a happier place



God has created Man and Woman differently to compliment each other. Their brain wiring, thought process, interpretation, assimilation & application of information is uniquely different. They have different happiness engagement buttons & emotional needs.

If you are in relation or business, and are able to understand & appreciate the gender-based thought process of your companion, associates, employees & prospects; you're going to be happier, more productive, Our credentials & testimonials by participants speak for themselves. Additionally, if you are in a leadership role and are able to understand gender nuances you are going to be successful as a effective leader

Would you like to live & work natural intelligent way;  be a Captivating Gender Smart Professional;
1) Sales Person
2) Retailer/Online seller

3) Manager/Team Leader/HR Professional
4) Coach 
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Tuesday, August 18, 2015

True incident: How I helped my best customer have marital bliss, live natural intelligent way


This is true incident, happened 18 month ago.

I never ever do this, however called by best customer, (young married professional, yet to become parent) 6 time in a span of 2 hours, I don't know what made me do this.

He expressed inability to meet at as agreed time, 6-6.30 PM @ family exigency. My response was family is priority, take care. However if you allow me to ask, you only have spouse, what happened to her.

He responded, he has to rush to a specialty hospital at Gurgaon, urgent medical test of  spouse, since she is suffering from migraine, it all started 2 month ago with little headache & back pain, now its severe & unbearable.

I don't know what made me speak this, however it was spontaneous & natural & he listened for 20 minutes, called me again, twice thereafter

My suggestion
  1. Even if you can't comprehend, do whatever your spouse asks you to do, for next 2 days with full unquestioned devotion
  2. You will gently encourage your spouse to accompany you for morning & evening walk (walk slow)
  3. Walk bare foot on grass, hug a tree as many times as you like
  4. If possible pat & feed a cow, else pat & feed dogs (any four legged creature)
  5. Keep small aquarium preferably near dining table or a t lobby
  6. Most important, learn to give message to a woman, area near her neck & ears, feet, back & then be natural, God has created two gender to have bliss, happiness, pleasure & propagate human race

He asked me reason & perhaps some scientific explanation to do this, My response was do what I have told you for two days, you will get result & ill explain you thereafter.

We met after a week & tried to explain him, Base-"Mooladhar" Chakra of women is highly sensitive & gets disturbed easily.

Nuclear family, stress to we men-women, food & artificial living is huge contributory factor to disturbed sleep which result in stress.

When woman marries a man, she usually relocates to her husband's place of stay-work. Relocation may be simple for man, however for woman it can be emotional challenge if not managed well. 

A man has to play various roles for a newly married wife;
  • Father
  • Mother
  • Girl Friend
  • & husband at the end

Fact & uncommon common sense: God has created Man and Woman differently to compliment each other

Fact & uncommon common sense
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God has created Man and Woman differently to compliment each other. Their brain wiring, thought process, interpretation, assimilation & application of information is uniquely different. They have different happiness engagement buttons & emotional needs. 

Would you like to live & work natural intelligent way;  be a Captivating Gender Smart Professional;
1) Sales Person
2) Retailer
3) Online seller
4) Manager/Team Leader/HR Professional
5) Coach

Sunday, August 16, 2015

O Dear ! loving father of a daughter !!

O Dear! loving father of a daughter !! You unknowingly give her stress, when you make her compete with men in financial earnings & funny status symbols called toys. Allow her to remain feminine.

  • After my seminars, many women meet me for individual & group counseling session. 
  • They are stressed to the extreme with suicidal tendencies, their biological rhythm disturbed. They stay in nuclear family devoid of parental, community & family support .
  • Many are unable to conceive after so many (7-10 Yrs) years of marriage.
  • After listening to them patiently, they reveal disturbing, upbringing thought process by their father; to be financially independent & compete with men. Father often dominating the mother for all decision process. Can't figure out if this is good for biological role created for women.
  • Further contributing to the depression; corporate & masculine thought process at workplace, which often doesn't allow them to truly express themselves.
  • Where are we heading ? 
 P.S.  I do not charge anything for this community service & do purely with the intention to help community

My suggestions to them;
  • Go for morning spiritual session at a park or any community place, where they can unwind, laugh, talk & chirp like a free bird
  • Meet on Sunday workshop (voluntary donations)
  • Do something creative, invest time & money to nurture relations & hobby (painting, gardening, yoga, teach poor kids... preferably community activity)
  •  Learn to give holiday to electronics; mobile, tablets, TV & computer